Rozhdestvenskaya, E. (2021). Videography of Love and Marriage Order. In: Mayer, CH., Vanderheiden, E. (eds) International Handbook of Love. Springer, Cham. https: ... Rozhdestvenskaya, E. (2021). Videography of Love and Marriage Order. In: Mayer, CH., Vanderheiden, E. (eds) International Handbook of Love. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-45996-3_14ISBN 978-3-030-45995-6DOI 10.1007/978-3-030-45996-3_14Posted on site: 31.01.24 AbstractThe chapter is about staging a collective utopia of romantic love through a marriage ceremony. On the one hand, cultural rituals of love as a marriage ceremony meet national values, on the other hand, they are influenced by a wide range of modernization trends (from social demography to market influence and digitalization). Presented study is focused on the so-called outdoor wedding registration as a relatively new and expanding wedding trend in the Russian cultural context. As such a decoration, the author has chosen the Tsaritsyno Park (Tsaritsyno is a palace and park ensemble in the south of Moscow, founded by order of Empress Catherine II in 1776. It is an architectural and historical monument of the so-called “Russian Gothic”. It was built by architects Vasily Bazhenov and Matvey Kazakov) located in Moscow, which sets its spatial and visual logic for the wedding narrative and its documentation with visual means. The theoretical focus of our research is on the dynamics and possible convergence of the pragmatic and romantic aspects of the modern phenomenon of love and marriage order which are embodied in media representations of changing, but preserving, traditional national moments of rituals. The empirical focus is actually on of the triad: the video media product, the opinion/position of the professionals creating it, and the opinion/reaction of customers. The marriage ceremony as a counterpoint in the love story of the couple acquires in the process of production of a media product—a wedding video—not only a documentation of the most important life event. Thanks to the video, a love couple now identifies their wedding ceremony experiences and feelings with a commercial product. This media product delivers the narcissistic joy of reflection and recognition and thereby generates a modified reverse perspective on one’s own lifeworld.Content (in russ)hide table of contentsshow table of contents Front Matter Pages i-xx Part I Front Matter Pages 1-1 Voicing the Stories of Love Across Cultures: An Introduction Claude-Hélène Mayer, Elisabeth Vanderheiden Pages 3-21 The State of Ethnological Research on Love: A Critical Review William Jankowiak, Alex J. Nelson Pages 23-39 Love’s Ethnographic Record: Beyond the Love/Arranged Marriage Dichotomy and Other False Essentialisms Alex J. Nelson, William Jankowiak Pages 41-57 Cultural Diversity of Romantic Love Experience Victor Karandashev Pages 59-79 Part II Front Matter Pages 81-81 Cyberspace: The Alternative Romantic Culture Aaron Ben-Ze’ev Pages 83-99 Climbing, and Falling Off, Plato’s Ladder of Love: The Emotions of Love and of Love’s Undoing Warren Tenhouten Pages 101-121 Towards the Performance of Embodied Cultures of Love Freddie Crous, Leigh Leo Pages 123-133 “A Friend? A Single Soul Dwelling in Two Bodies.” Friendship—a Special Kind of Love Elisabeth Vanderheiden Pages 135-154 “Have a Friend with Benefits, Whom off and on I See.” Friends with Benefits Relationships Elisabeth Vanderheiden Pages 155-175 Building a Culture of Revolutionary Love: The Politics of Love in Radical Social Transformation Matt York Pages 177-191 Part III Front Matter Pages 193-193 Devotion: “Being Shore to the Ocean” Thomas Ryan Pages 195-208 Ashk: The Sufi Concept for Love Çiğdem Buğdaycı Pages 209-222 Prema in kabIr’s sAkhI: Indigenous Perspectives on Love Dharm P. S. Bhawuk Pages 223-242 Part IV Front Matter Pages 243-243 Videography of Love and Marriage Order Elena Rozhdestvenskaya Pages 245-265 Low-SES Parents’ Love as Educational Involvement with Their Primary School Children: A Synthesis of Qualitative Research Naomi Takashiro, Clifford H. Clarke Pages 267-289